Comments on: Life is not that Bad http://finally-woken.com/2006/10/life-is-not-that-bad/ Four seasons in one day, two countries in one heart Fri, 04 May 2012 19:22:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: kaye_desu http://finally-woken.com/2006/10/life-is-not-that-bad/#comment-24 kaye_desu Wed, 02 Sep 2009 09:00:34 +0000 http://finally-woken.com/?p=35#comment-24 Thank you for this wonderful post. This may be old, but I can (again) relate to this one heheh... Right now, I am actually going through a you-thought-was-love-but-maybe-it-never-was-and-you-lost-it kind of situation and it's really hurting me. I can also honestly say that I am really, really stupid when it comes to love. Sometimes, I think to myself if I ever learn from my mistakes or if I ever learn from my own (or others') past experiences. (Maybe not?) But anyways, getting hurt and getting yourself into a situation where you can get hurt eventually is fairly easy, but yes, mending a broken heart after that is definitely harder than we can imagine. There's this long process of denial, self-pity, hatred, acceptance, and who-knows-what-else and in between those, we just can't help but cry our eyes out to sleep. I, myself, am not strong enough with dealing with loving and losing (most specially with losing and broken hearts!) and I can honestly say that I am more like talking about myself here hehehe... Now, I don't know what to do. I want to believe in love again and in finding that right person for me one day in the very near future... but somehow, I don't know if I still can. I am still hoping, but most of the time (as experienced before) I lose in the end. It's never easy to lose someone very important or special to you. And no one said that broken hearts are easy to mend! :-S Thank you for this wonderful post. This may be old, but I can (again) relate to this one heheh… Right now, I am actually going through a you-thought-was-love-but-maybe-it-never-was-and-you-lost-it kind of situation and it’s really hurting me. I can also honestly say that I am really, really stupid when it comes to love. Sometimes, I think to myself if I ever learn from my mistakes or if I ever learn from my own (or others’) past experiences. (Maybe not?) But anyways, getting hurt and getting yourself into a situation where you can get hurt eventually is fairly easy, but yes, mending a broken heart after that is definitely harder than we can imagine. There’s this long process of denial, self-pity, hatred, acceptance, and who-knows-what-else and in between those, we just can’t help but cry our eyes out to sleep. I, myself, am not strong enough with dealing with loving and losing (most specially with losing and broken hearts!) and I can honestly say that I am more like talking about myself here hehehe… Now, I don’t know what to do. I want to believe in love again and in finding that right person for me one day in the very near future… but somehow, I don’t know if I still can. I am still hoping, but most of the time (as experienced before) I lose in the end. It’s never easy to lose someone very important or special to you. And no one said that broken hearts are easy to mend!

:-S

]]> By: Diva http://finally-woken.com/2006/10/life-is-not-that-bad/#comment-23 Diva Tue, 11 Dec 2007 10:16:00 +0000 http://finally-woken.com/?p=35#comment-23 For those who just had a break up, I strongly recommend the book "He is just not so into you" and "It is called a break up because it is broken" both by Greg Behrendt. <br/><br/>We all go through a break up and at the end of the day, when you think about it, the guy is not worth you anyways. The last guy I dated, I thought he was wonderful and I cried a river for a month when he broke up with me. But then when I think about it, hey, he had difficulties having an erection, so why all the tears? For those who just had a break up, I strongly recommend the book “He is just not so into you” and “It is called a break up because it is broken” both by Greg Behrendt.

We all go through a break up and at the end of the day, when you think about it, the guy is not worth you anyways. The last guy I dated, I thought he was wonderful and I cried a river for a month when he broke up with me. But then when I think about it, hey, he had difficulties having an erection, so why all the tears?

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