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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1249</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 14:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cool, I got $77 from http://www.cashlot.co.uk/?5582.</description>
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		<title>By: jaime_hamm</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1248</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 15:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m an American and my boyfriend is English. He&#039;s more affectionate than I am, and I consider myself to be a pretty affectionate person. Kissing in public is perfectly fine as long as no one is looking and we hold hands all the time. We do live in the USA, though. Maybe the British are more conscious in the UK.  Or maybe a bunch of girls are attracted to that type of British guys that are more distant when they first get together. I will say he doesn&#039;t show when he&#039;s upset though, but that&#039;s kind of a guy thing in general.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m an American and my boyfriend is English. He&#8217;s more affectionate than I am, and I consider myself to be a pretty affectionate person. Kissing in public is perfectly fine as long as no one is looking and we hold hands all the time. We do live in the USA, though. Maybe the British are more conscious in the UK.  Or maybe a bunch of girls are attracted to that type of British guys that are more distant when they first get together. I will say he doesn&#8217;t show when he&#8217;s upset though, but that&#8217;s kind of a guy thing in general.</p>
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		<title>By: cuteasiantoothfairy</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1247</link>
		<dc:creator>cuteasiantoothfairy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 12:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I experienced dating a british guy. He was polite with my parents and me at first. But he thinks he&#039;s always right. He&#039;s also super jealous up to the point of getting all my passwords for my email address and deleting my male contacts on my phone. I was lured to go there in UK and he got me pregnant. When I told him about the pregnancy, he went cold to icy. He just doesn&#039;t care and wants me to have a termination. I think most british men just like to shag and use women. When we walk on the streets and stop by a grocery shop, he&#039;s at arm&#039;s length away. It feels like he&#039;s ashamed of me. He told me he loves me and has th best of intentions but his actions doesn&#039;t prove so. He just have a blank face even if I tell him that I&#039;m so sick and doesn&#039;t bring me to the doctor. They are so repressed with their emotions. They don&#039;t like to show any emotions even if it&#039;s tearing them apart inside and hide it with anger or being upset.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I experienced dating a british guy. He was polite with my parents and me at first. But he thinks he&#8217;s always right. He&#8217;s also super jealous up to the point of getting all my passwords for my email address and deleting my male contacts on my phone. I was lured to go there in UK and he got me pregnant. When I told him about the pregnancy, he went cold to icy. He just doesn&#8217;t care and wants me to have a termination. I think most british men just like to shag and use women. When we walk on the streets and stop by a grocery shop, he&#8217;s at arm&#8217;s length away. It feels like he&#8217;s ashamed of me. He told me he loves me and has th best of intentions but his actions doesn&#8217;t prove so. He just have a blank face even if I tell him that I&#8217;m so sick and doesn&#8217;t bring me to the doctor. They are so repressed with their emotions. They don&#8217;t like to show any emotions even if it&#8217;s tearing them apart inside and hide it with anger or being upset.</p>
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		<title>By: What you weren&#8217;t told about pregnancy, job hunting, travelling, gigs&#8230; - Scottish Roundup</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1246</link>
		<dc:creator>What you weren&#8217;t told about pregnancy, job hunting, travelling, gigs&#8230; - Scottish Roundup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] you find that a bit confusing, Finally Woken brings us a guide on what to expect if you want to date a British man. And by the way, why are they &#8212; and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Finally Woken » Blog Archive » Thinking About Dating A British? &#124; The Active Life and Sports Blog</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1245</link>
		<dc:creator>Finally Woken » Blog Archive » Thinking About Dating A British? &#124; The Active Life and Sports Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 04:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 14 Nov, 2008&#160; Arts, Cat, Culture, Dating, Love, Men, Relationships, Success, Uncategorized, Wedding, Weight, Women       P&#173;a&#173;rv&#173;it&#173;a&#173;: y&#173;ep&#173;, Brit&#173;ish a&#173;re a&#173;ll a&#173;bo&#173;&#173;ut&#173; p&#173;ub cult&#173;ure . I wo&#173;&#173;n’t&#173; judg&#173;e men by&#173; t&#173;heir na&#173;t&#173;io&#173;&#173;na&#173;lit&#173;y&#173; t&#173;ho&#173;&#173;ug&#173;h, so&#173;&#173;met&#173;imes y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u see t&#173;he wa&#173;y&#173; t&#173;hey&#173; beha&#173;v&#173;e a&#173;nd y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u ca&#173;n p&#173;o&#173;&#173;int&#173; o&#173;&#173;ut&#173; ‘a&#173;h, t&#173;ha&#173;t&#173;’s beca&#173;use y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u’re Brit&#173;ish’, but&#173; mo&#173;&#173;st&#173; o&#173;&#173;f&#173; t&#173;he t&#173;ime, f&#173;o&#173;&#173;llo&#173;&#173;w y&#173;o&#173;&#173;ur inst&#173;inct&#173; &#8230;    View o&#173;riginal p&#173;o&#173;st h&#173;ere: F&#173;in&#173;al&#173;l&#173;y Woken&#173; » Bl&#173;og Ar&#173;c&#173;h&#173;iv&#173;e » Th&amp;#173... [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 14 Nov, 2008&nbsp; Arts, Cat, Culture, Dating, Love, Men, Relationships, Success, Uncategorized, Wedding, Weight, Women       P&#173;a&#173;rv&#173;it&#173;a&#173;: y&#173;ep&#173;, Brit&#173;ish a&#173;re a&#173;ll a&#173;bo&#173;&#173;ut&#173; p&#173;ub cult&#173;ure . I wo&#173;&#173;n’t&#173; judg&#173;e men by&#173; t&#173;heir na&#173;t&#173;io&#173;&#173;na&#173;lit&#173;y&#173; t&#173;ho&#173;&#173;ug&#173;h, so&#173;&#173;met&#173;imes y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u see t&#173;he wa&#173;y&#173; t&#173;hey&#173; beha&#173;v&#173;e a&#173;nd y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u ca&#173;n p&#173;o&#173;&#173;int&#173; o&#173;&#173;ut&#173; ‘a&#173;h, t&#173;ha&#173;t&#173;’s beca&#173;use y&#173;o&#173;&#173;u’re Brit&#173;ish’, but&#173; mo&#173;&#173;st&#173; o&#173;&#173;f&#173; t&#173;he t&#173;ime, f&#173;o&#173;&#173;llo&#173;&#173;w y&#173;o&#173;&#173;ur inst&#173;inct&#173; &#8230;    View o&#173;riginal p&#173;o&#173;st h&#173;ere: F&#173;in&#173;al&#173;l&#173;y Woken&#173; » Bl&#173;og Ar&#173;c&#173;h&#173;iv&#173;e » Th&amp;#173&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mrs Top Monkey</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1244</link>
		<dc:creator>Mrs Top Monkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 12:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL  I can&#039;t wait to show this blog post to my English hubby!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mrs Top Monkeys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://expatwifetalks.blogspot.com/2008/10/mummy-brains-syndrome.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Mummy Brains Syndrome&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL  I can&#8217;t wait to show this blog post to my English hubby!</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Mrs Top Monkeys last blog post..<a href="http://expatwifetalks.blogspot.com/2008/10/mummy-brains-syndrome.html" rel="nofollow">The Mummy Brains Syndrome</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Finally Woken</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1243</link>
		<dc:creator>Finally Woken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 20:11:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ecky: you mean those hooligans are fruity?

Christine: if they stumble upon things in front of you, if they become mute or stutter, there&#039;s a big possibility they like you. I know, it&#039;s hard to interpret.

Therry: They might be into you. But &#039;in a very British way&#039;.

Rima: ehm, I&#039;ve got several half-German half-Indonesian cousins. So they are better than your BESTEST!

Santi: I totally agree. It&#039;s just funny to see the way Madonna handling her marital problem and still finds it difficult to deal with Guy Ritchie&#039;s &quot;Britishness&quot; even after 7 1/2 years.

Parvita: yep, British are all about pub culture. I won&#039;t judge men by their nationality though, sometimes you see the way they behave and you can point out &#039;ah, that&#039;s because you&#039;re British&#039;, but most of the time, follow your instinct :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ecky: you mean those hooligans are fruity?</p>
<p>Christine: if they stumble upon things in front of you, if they become mute or stutter, there&#8217;s a big possibility they like you. I know, it&#8217;s hard to interpret.</p>
<p>Therry: They might be into you. But &#8216;in a very British way&#8217;.</p>
<p>Rima: ehm, I&#8217;ve got several half-German half-Indonesian cousins. So they are better than your BESTEST!</p>
<p>Santi: I totally agree. It&#8217;s just funny to see the way Madonna handling her marital problem and still finds it difficult to deal with Guy Ritchie&#8217;s &#8220;Britishness&#8221; even after 7 1/2 years.</p>
<p>Parvita: yep, British are all about pub culture. I won&#8217;t judge men by their nationality though, sometimes you see the way they behave and you can point out &#8216;ah, that&#8217;s because you&#8217;re British&#8217;, but most of the time, follow your instinct <img src='http://finally-woken.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: parvita</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1242</link>
		<dc:creator>parvita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 12:52:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I only had one experience dating a Brit so it is a bit difficult to comment, but I have lots of British male friends and I work for a British company now so I am surrounded by Brits.  Fun Brits.  My experience with the Brit was good and fun, lots of clubbing and drinking, that&#039;s about it.  From my experience, I find Italians are great: they cook, they are romantic, they are hot, and Indonesians are so far what I lean towards these days.  Not Jakartans, but those from other islands.  Mysterious and sexy.  If you ask me if I would want to date a Brit, with the description above, I don&#039;t think I&#039;ll go for it though...but I never say never..!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;parvitas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://parvita.wordpress.com/2008/10/22/bali-bombers-painless-death/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Death Penalty: Which one is the best?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I only had one experience dating a Brit so it is a bit difficult to comment, but I have lots of British male friends and I work for a British company now so I am surrounded by Brits.  Fun Brits.  My experience with the Brit was good and fun, lots of clubbing and drinking, that&#8217;s about it.  From my experience, I find Italians are great: they cook, they are romantic, they are hot, and Indonesians are so far what I lean towards these days.  Not Jakartans, but those from other islands.  Mysterious and sexy.  If you ask me if I would want to date a Brit, with the description above, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll go for it though&#8230;but I never say never..!</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>parvitas last blog post..<a href="http://parvita.wordpress.com/2008/10/22/bali-bombers-painless-death/" rel="nofollow">Death Penalty: Which one is the best?</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: santi d</title>
		<link>http://finally-woken.com/2008/10/thinking-about-dating-a-british/#comment-1241</link>
		<dc:creator>santi d</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 10:14:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting, Nit. The &#039;stiff upper lip&#039; trait sounds like Indonesian people, both our men and women, LOL.  I think this type of guidance is useful when someone wants to start a relationship.  Beyond,  the personality of the people involved will play a bigger role, irrespective to their nationalities.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;santi ds last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://trilingual.livejournal.com/28139.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;8th Wedding Anniversary&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting, Nit. The &#8216;stiff upper lip&#8217; trait sounds like Indonesian people, both our men and women, LOL.  I think this type of guidance is useful when someone wants to start a relationship.  Beyond,  the personality of the people involved will play a bigger role, irrespective to their nationalities.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>santi ds last blog post..<a href="http://trilingual.livejournal.com/28139.html" rel="nofollow">8th Wedding Anniversary</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: rima fauzi</title>
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		<dc:creator>rima fauzi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 08:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve dated americans, brits, french, dutch, ozzy, and germans and to my exp, german men are the best. And when I say best, I mean BEST (in all aspects).
Of course, seeing as I am married to and Indonesian, Indonesians are the BESTEST, but germans come as a close second.
I personally do not enjoy dating native english speakers as I have found them to be a bit condescending. They assume that just because English is not my mother tongue, I wouldn&#039;t understand when they make fun of asians, for example, even subtly. Oh, but I do.
Of course there are good brits/americans out there, I was just unfortunate not to have met them. But from all the germans I&#039;ve been with, I find them to be charming, polite, they know how to treat a woman, very very gentle, unselfish lovers and best of all, they respect me even when I don&#039;t speak german. :)  but that&#039;s just my exp. everybody&#039;s exp are different, i&#039;m sure.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;rima fauzis last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://rimafauzi.com/blogs/?p=1011&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The one where I talked about boobs&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve dated americans, brits, french, dutch, ozzy, and germans and to my exp, german men are the best. And when I say best, I mean BEST (in all aspects).<br />
Of course, seeing as I am married to and Indonesian, Indonesians are the BESTEST, but germans come as a close second.<br />
I personally do not enjoy dating native english speakers as I have found them to be a bit condescending. They assume that just because English is not my mother tongue, I wouldn&#8217;t understand when they make fun of asians, for example, even subtly. Oh, but I do.<br />
Of course there are good brits/americans out there, I was just unfortunate not to have met them. But from all the germans I&#8217;ve been with, I find them to be charming, polite, they know how to treat a woman, very very gentle, unselfish lovers and best of all, they respect me even when I don&#8217;t speak german. <img src='http://finally-woken.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   but that&#8217;s just my exp. everybody&#8217;s exp are different, i&#8217;m sure.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>rima fauzis last blog post..<a href="http://rimafauzi.com/blogs/?p=1011" rel="nofollow">The one where I talked about boobs</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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