Comments on: Facebook Has Taken My Friends Away…

By: Finally Woken

Finally Woken — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:23:14 +0000

Alicia: you’ve missed my point. The guys who deleted me from their facebook actually are my real friends. We have a history that stretched for over a decade. I used to know one’s wife even, back in the day when we were students. I might be far away from home, but the communication is still solid, we chat and exchange message regularly. Every time I go back to my country I always meet them, either for dinner, drinks or both. They keep saying they’re very sorry for having me deleted from their facebook, but they’re tired having to argue with their spouses about our friendships.

By: Alicia

Alicia — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:40:37 +0000

Also sounds like the jealous and obsessive one is the ones bugging that they were dropped for a wife/girlfriend. Wife, spouse, significant other-yes-they come first and it’s definitely not worth keeping someone you used to know if it aggrivates the love in your life in THE REAL WORLD! Facebook friends ARE NOT ALL REAL friends. HELLO!!!!!!!!!!

By: Alicia

Alicia — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:36:22 +0000

Well, not for nothing, but if they dump you as a friend, you really cannot be that important to them anyway. So why care? You have real friends I’m sure and if you see a man every year, while day after day he lives his life with his wife, then you are an aquaintence. Not a friend! Bug off and let them live their lives.

By: Finally Woken

Finally Woken — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 18:37:38 +0000

Jafeto: see the one who deletes me is my good friend, so it’s not that easy to replace him with some random, new friends.

Mare: as bizarre as it sounds, those 500 friends are my real friends. I often have a friend whose brothers and sisters are also my friends. Or husbands and wives.

Mercy: hmmm…. does his wife know about you?

De: insecurity? jealousy? I am not sure why my friend’s wife suddenly feels jealous, considering she actually has met me and knows me…

By: DE

DE — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:19:30 +0000

Your article drives home the reality It captures the exact thing that has been happening between wife and I for some time now. I’ve never seen the ferocious tiger attitude side of her all the years we’ve been married.

Just as you’ve mentioned, these girls are friends that we went to high school together and are thousands of miles away. Yes, some we dated then but they are married now and no one is looking to be engaged in infidelity for God’s sake.

Yet I have asked her many times that she is beginning to feel that I am looking to have an affair of which she said no. But she is yet to tell me what exactly is eating her up on the inside.

By: Mercy

Mercy — Mon, 11 May 2009 07:47:36 +0000

Just read your blog, it happened to me also. My first ex boyfriend has just deleted me also from his list and I can’t find him. I suspect his wife was also jealous. I’ve never wrote anything on his wall. I am not sure what has happened but I won’t ask him. He still sends me a message though.

Anyway, you will find many new friends..

cheers,

By: mare

mare — Sat, 09 May 2009 05:22:27 +0000

I think when you have 500 friend list,this thing bound to happen. Maybe you should somehow turn this virtual social friends into real friends. 500 real friend! Now that is one amazing life dream

By: Jafeto

Jafeto — Tue, 05 May 2009 08:19:01 +0000

Ppl sometimes need relax and not too obsessive… If someone delete u from facebook its ok, take it easy there’s a lot new friend, u can share and having fun with them

By: Andrew E. Santosa

Andrew E. Santosa — Fri, 01 May 2009 05:37:24 +0000

Thanks for the invitation to your blog.

When having a bad experience, you can sometimes find comfort from positive comments posted on your blogs, but what do the authors know, really, other than their intentions to cheer you up. Will pray for you to Jesus and Mary.

You can try to write books, you know. Maybe you’ll do well as a writer and make big bucks.

Please take care.

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