Certain Friendships Don’t Last Forever (2)

Sometimes when you're sleep deprived, you start imagining things and seeing stars before your eyes. That's what I thought the first time I saw them. … [Read more...]


Jalan toll dalam kota macet total jam sembilan malam, semua mobil merambat pelan. Aku menoleh ke kiri, menatap deretan gedung yang berjejer manis dan melihat sebuah signage besar, berlatar belakang putih dengan tulisan biru. Sepuluh detik aku … [Read more...]

It Ain’t Over Til It’s Over (2)

A friend sent me a message after reading my "It Ain't Over Til It's Over (1)" story. In short he said that a) hey, basically men have heart too (hence, break up is not an easy thing to get over with) and b) girls sometimes can be really cold bitches … [Read more...]

It Ain’t Over Til It’s Over (1)

Ever read Between Boyfriends? Cindy Chupack wrote wonderfully about the situation of being single - again! - after having a (so-called) relationship and/or a boyfriend. It's funny, witty, hilarious book that will make you either a) keep on hoping to … [Read more...]

Excess Baggages

When we reach certain age, we are not only be blessed with wrinkles and wisdom (in that order!), but also with tracks and history. Some can be seen and touched (kids, ex boyfriends, pressies from them, tongue-pierced), some are intangible stuffs, … [Read more...]

Dear Liar

Dear Liar, Why do you think you can getaway easily? Why do you think others won't remember what you have said and done? Why do you think others won't pick up pieces and have them glued back together into a complete picture? I have no idea. … [Read more...]

Boyfriend Crisis Centre: Opening Soon

A friend called during work and made me listening to her grief: she feels ugly! She thinks she's not attractive, hence, no guys are interested in her. This evidently was supported by a proof that she's been single for a couple of years. Of course … [Read more...]