Posts Tagged ‘Break-ups’

When It Became Too Real

A fan of online virtual reality game “Second Life” is being divorced after his wife caught his cyber character having sex with a two-dimensional prostitute (The Sun, Nov 14). clipped from www.thesun.co.uk David Pollard’s shocked missus walked out on him in tears over the fling between his randy computer “self” and the other player’s busty [...]

Certain Friendships Don't Last Forever (2)

Sometimes when you’re sleep deprived, you start imagining things and seeing stars before your eyes. That’s what I thought the first time I saw them. On the way back to Indonesia I stopped over in Singapore to see my best friend from high school, who’s heavily pregnant and ready to explode any day now. I [...]

Closure

Jalan toll dalam kota macet total jam sembilan malam, semua mobil merambat pelan. Aku menoleh ke kiri, menatap deretan gedung yang berjejer manis dan melihat sebuah signage besar, berlatar belakang putih dengan tulisan biru. Sepuluh detik aku terpaku, dan terkejut ketika mobil di belakang mengedipkan lampu besarnya. Melaju pelan, aku meraih handphone dan menelepon sebuah [...]

Life is not that Bad

A friend came to me with a sad news: she just broke up with her boyfriend (again). In almost 5 years knowing her, this was the second time her love affair ended abruptly. Everything was smooth sailing for months…. and then… bam! He broke up with her. She was devastated, she cried a lot, kept [...]

It Ain't Over Til It's Over (2)

A friend sent me a message after reading my “It Ain’t Over Til It’s Over (1)” story. In short he said that a) hey, basically men have heart too (hence, break up is not an easy thing to get over with) and b) girls sometimes can be really cold bitches as well. And yes, I [...]

It Ain't Over Til It's Over (1)

Ever read Between Boyfriends? Cindy Chupack wrote wonderfully about the situation of being single – again! – after having a (so-called) relationship and/or a boyfriend. It’s funny, witty, hilarious book that will make you either a) keep on hoping to find Mr.Right by trying to avoid mistakes she’s made, or b) give up entirely and [...]

Excess Baggages

When we reach certain age, we are not only be blessed with wrinkles and wisdom (in that order!), but also with tracks and history. Some can be seen and touched (kids, ex boyfriends, pressies from them, tongue-pierced), some are intangible stuffs, like experience (the best, the worst, the biggest, the funniest, the weirdest…), and memory. [...]

Dear Liar

Dear Liar, Why do you think you can getaway easily? Why do you think others won’t remember what you have said and done? Why do you think others won’t pick up pieces and have them glued back together into a complete picture? I have no idea. Dear Liar, Are you able to have a sound [...]

Boyfriend Crisis Centre: Opening Soon

A friend called during work and made me listening to her grief: she feels ugly! She thinks she’s not attractive, hence, no guys are interested in her. This was supported by a proof that she’s been single for a couple of years. Of course I said she’s wrong; she’s pretty, smart, and independent. She has [...]